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Coaching Services

Struggling with an intimacy issue? 
Know how you want your sex life to feel but aren't sure how to get there?

Our private coaching sessions offer space for talking about 
(yes, just talking) sexual challenges and desires. Coaching helps you work toward your intimacy goals by providing tools that help you have a sex life you love. Sessions are for solos and partners, together or separate.

    Our 50-minute coaching sessions are all online at this time and are $75. We also offer complimentary, 15-minute sessions to determine if coaching is right for you.

    For sliding scale options, email info@winkwinkboutique.com.

    About Jenn Mason:

    "Hi, I'm Jenn. I'm the owner of WinkWink and a certified sexologist. I'm also the mom to a cool kid who has cerebral palsy, a former sexual assault victim advocate, and a school board member.

    I'm interested in talking about all sides of sex and intimacy and believe that addressing sexual shame can be incredibly powerful. I'm here to help you have the kind of sex, relationships, and intimacy you want. Because that stuff matters...and so do you."
    I'm a certified sexologist and board-certified Diplomate through the American Board of Sexology. I received my sex coaching certification through Sexology Institute. I also have a B.A. from Western Washington University and a Master of Public Administration from Seattle University."

    • Low desire or desire differences
    • Sexual communication
    • Intimacy after breakups, divorce, or widowhood
    • Parenting and sex
    • Sex after sexual assault/boundary violations
    • Working with people who have developmental, intellectual, and physical disabilities 

     About Milandra Arquilevich:

    "Hello! I’m Milandra, C.H.S.E. (she/her), and I’m passionate about shame-free pleasure—both in its importance for overall health and wellness, and making it accessible for every body

    As a disabled and neurodivergent person who fell prey to CompHet (compulsory heteronormativity), I believe it’s vital to acknowledge the intersections of comprehensive sex education (and lack thereof), mental health, ableism, and so much more, and their impacts on sexual wellness. Working as a SexTech expert and Pleasure Educator for the better part of a decade, I have provided a judgement-free space for hundreds of folx to explore and expand their ideas (and experiences) of pleasure.

    I have a Bachelors in Psychology with an emphasis in Human Sexuality from CalPoly Humboldt and a Holistic Sex Educator Certification from the Institute for Sexuality Enlightenment and Education. 

    Specialties include:

    • Expanding your sexual toolbelt
    • Finding toys and techniques specific to your unique wants, needs, and abilities
    • Exploring sexuality & overcoming compulsory heterosexuality
    • Queer sex for all experience levels
    • Communication about sex, desire, and intimacy
    • Sex and intimacy with chronic pain/illness