2023 Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Toy Edition
Valentine’s Day is QUICKLY approaching – we’re always shocked at how fast it comes around every year. If you’re anything like us, you might’ve completely forgotten to get a gift for your S.O., and are now scrambling to find something at the last minute.
Lucky for you, we’ve compiled three different gift guides just for you, depending on what kind of gift you’re looking for: romantic, toy-related, or kinda kinky ;) We’d love to see you in the shop and will be so happy to help you find the perfect gift(s) for your boo!
If you’ve never been to a sex shop and might be a little nervous to visit WinkWink in-person to g grab your last-minute gifts, don’t be – here’s a blog post we put together for you, all about Visiting a Sex Shop for the First Time & What to Expect!
Stick around if you’re on the hunt for a fun new toy to play around with together (or for your partner to use on their own).
If you’re looking to put together a romantic + sexy date night for your and your love, check out our Date Night Gift Guide.
And if you’re looking to spice up your sex life a little with kink-related gifts, you’ll find those in our Kinky Gift Guide.
Wishing you a sexy Valentine’s Day, loves!
First off, if you’re totally new to sex toys, or you haven’t really used them with your partner, we’d recommend checking out our guide to How to Bring Sex Toys Into Your Relationship before diving into this guide. If you’re unsure of how to introduce toys into your relationship, this guide will walk you through how to go about it, how to bring it up to your partner, and just how much fun toys can contribute to your sex life (both solo & partnered)!
Top Valentine’s Day Sex Toy Gift Ideas
We’ve included a wide variety of toys in this list to meet you wherever you’re at on your toy journey, whether you’re looking to explore anal sex for the first or the 100th time, you’ve got 10 vibrators in your top drawer & are looking for your 11th, or you want to try out a new toy that you and your partner can use together. Enjoy!
For anal beginners: Colours Pleasures Training Kit
Let’s start off with a classic anal training kit for anyone who’s looking to explore anal play, or make it comfier for themselves & their partner! This kit includes three multi-colored plugs of various sizes, all with tapered tips and long necks that allow for easy insertion.
Looking for more anal tips + toys for beginners? Check out our guide to Anal Play for Beginners: Butt Plugs, Booty Beads, & More!
For butt plug enthusiasts: Open Roses Silicone Butt Plug
If you’re looking for a beautiful butt plug that’ll ensure deep penetration, check out the Open Roses Silicone Butt Plug! This plug is soft and flexible for easy insertion, AND it’s cute as hell with its fuchsia color and rose design!
To replace the bouquet of roses: Bloomgasm Rose Suction Vibrator
Continuing the rose theme in honor of Valentine’s Day, this Bloomgasm Rose Suction Vibrator is a deliciously powerful clitoral suction vibrator that’s sure to lead to blooming orgasms ;) It uses gentle tapping & suction to provide powerful stimulation and is made up of super-smooth silicone. Combine this palm-sized vibe with the Open Roses Butt Plug and you’ll be able to replace that classic V-Day rose bouquet altogether!
For a classically good time: Magic Wand
Want to keep it classic? The Original Magic Wand is iconic for a reason and would be the perfect gift for a partner who loves wand vibes that provide deep, rumbly vibrations. We will NEVER stop loving the powerful motors that the Magic Wand provides and the intense orgasms it’s brought to so many vulva-owners over the years.
Learn more about the Magic Wand & why it’s SO iconic in our article about How the Magic Wand Came to Be: What’s All The Buzz About?
For the best of both worlds: Aya Wearable Vibrator & G-Spot Attachment
If you don’t want to have to choose between clit & g-spot fun, then you’ll LOVE this Aya Wearable Vibrator & G-Spot Attachment that provides the absolute best of both worlds. It’s uniquely adaptable for different types of play and allows you to enjoy both external vulva stimulation as well as deep, internal stimulation from the removable silicone attachment. Your partner can even use the remote control to deliver waves of pleasure to you whenever they want – this would be a fun little secret between the two of you if you go out for a V-Day dinner ;)
For strap-on-lovin’ bb’s: Strap On Me Wearable Dildo w/ Remote
Want to incorporate some strap-on fun into your Valentine’s Day celebration? Check out this wearable double strap-on that’s got not 1, not 2, but 3 motors: in the tip, the end of the shaft, and the bulb that can vibrate independently for a fully customizable experience. You’ll looove this vibrating strap-on if you enjoy deep, rumbly vibrations, and if you want to use it in the shower – as it’s fully waterproof!
If you’re a beginner when it comes to strap-on’s and want to learn more about how to incorporate them into your sex life, be sure to read our guide to the Best Strap-On Tips for Beginners!
For pink-lovers: Daze Silicone Vibrating 7” Dildo
Want to give your partner a classic, cute pink V-Day gift – dildo edition? The Daze Silicone Vibrating Dildo is THE way to go. This harness-compatible dil has a dramatic upward curve perfect for accessing the g-spot or prostate, and comes with 5 different yummy vibration modes & a flared base. It’s perfect for both vaginal & anal play, and the silky-smooth silicone material is sure to make for easy, delicious strokes that’ll have you fallin’ to your knees.
For a finer taste: Handblown Gold Glass Swirl Dildo
If you’ve got a little bit of a finer taste & are looking for a more elegant toy to bring into the bedroom, you have got to check out this gorgeous Handblown Gold Glass Swirl Dildo. This curved, double-ended 7” dildo enhances couples play in soooo many ways, and provides all the delicious benefits that come with glass sex toys.
If you’re totally new to glass toys and are even just a little intrigued, we definitely recommend checking out our Beginner’s Guide to Glass Sex Toys & Why You Need One ASAP!
For penis owners: Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo Vibrator
The Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo is a vibrator & penis toy that was designed with couples in mind, as one that has become uber-popular for good reason. The inner side of the Duo has a powerful, pulsing plate that rests perfectly on the sensitive frenulum (the underside of the penis where the head meets the shaft), and even provides strong vibrations that your partner can grind on top of while you use it. Let the Duo do its thing without even using your hands, or use the remote to control the sensations it’s giving your partner!
We’ve got plenty more awesome penis toys – you won’t want to miss our Penis Owner’s Guide to Strokers, Fleshlights, & Other Toys!
For some stainless steel fun: Njoy Stainless Steel Fun Wand Dildo
Last but not least, we wanted to provide one more option for toys of alternative material: the Njoy Stainless Steel Fun Wand Dildo! This wand is as gorgeous as it is pleasurable, with a classic wand on one end and graduated bulbs for anal play on the other. Enjoy some fun temperature play with the stainless steel material, and use it either on its own or combine it with oral stimulation for some extra fun!
Learn more about stainless steel toys & why we love them so much here!
DON’T FORGET: Lube!
And before we go, we wanted to remind you to grab some lube on your way out! If you’re using any toys, especially toys that are used internally for any type of penetrative sex, it’s important to lube ‘em up to ensure a safe, comfortable experience for you and your partner. We’ve got a whole Lube 101 guide where we walk you through the different types of lube, our personal favorite products, what lubes are/aren’t compatible with sex toys, & more!
We hope this Sex Toy Gift Guide has helped you find some great toys to gift your partner this Valentine’s Day, or to incorporate into your sex life for the both of you to enjoy. Be sure to check out our Kinky Gift Guide & Date Night Gift Guide if you’re on the hunt for more ideas + fun ways to add a little adventure or romance into your date night!